Experiences And Reflections
Many wonder if The Law Of Attraction is really real.
Many say with certainty that it is.
While others do not believe you can manifest things without hard work.
It's not about working harder, it's about working smarter.
This requires you to use your senses, intuition, mind, and body in ways that may not come naturally at first.
Visualization is a tool we all have at our disposal.
In my next entry, I will delve further into how you can use this tool to bring forth the things you want into your life.
A little tidbit for now is to close your eyes and imagine.
You are limitless.
The minute you put the key to your happiness in another person’s pocket, you’re essentially screwing yourself.
Because you’re giving your power away.
Don’t do it.
Go buy a key. It can be fancy or it can be straight from a department store.
Get yourself a keychain specifically for you. Get one that represents who you are as an individual.
This keychain belongs to you. You’re the only one that knows what locks to unlock and which ones to keep closed, and it all begins in your mind.
Every time you feel unsure or upset or like you’re losing control, grab your key.
Remind yourself who you are. Remind yourself of how far you’ve come.
Now make a decision to be happy in spite of it all.
And act accordingly.
People don’t understand the impact heartache can have on a person.
They think because the person appears to be okay, that things are okay.
Are you there in the middle of the night when the house is quiet and the voices say the ugliest things?
When the anxiety comes and won’t back off for sleep?
Are you there when the tears fall, the breaths come fast, and sobbing won’t stop?
Are you there when things really are good on the outside, but inside it feels like another sad person is living there and refuses to move out?
Then you can’t assume another person is ever okay.
You can’t save people.
You can do more.
You can be there.
You can make things a little easier by being a little nicer.
Is there or are there people in your life who seem to make it their mission to mess with your good mood?
Have you ever been super excited and pleased with life only to have another person come and make a negative comment?
Has this made you feel like the floor just got ripped out from under your good mood?
Or maybe it's on Social Media?
Perhaps you posted something you were in bliss over, and someone decided to be negative.
Now suppose you confront them.
A person with a healthy mindset would apoloogize.
A person with a unhealthy mindset will not focus on your feelings and proceed to tell you that you are too sensitive, they were only kidding, or they will spew out some more toxicity your way.
I want to enlighten and familiarize all my readers with the term Covert Narcissism and Passive Aggression.
I won't go into this today.
Both terms require their individual posts.
Don't allow assholes to ruin your good mood or your good day!
And for damn sure?
Don't allow them to ruin your life.
If it hurt your feelings, if you felt that familiar sting and felt put down, honor those feelings even if no one else does.
Don't allow another human being to invalidate you or to make you feel as though you need to question your emotions.
Your feelings are valid.